Trauma Therapy

Does Unresolved Trauma Continue To Impact Your Life?

Are you a trauma survivor who feels unsafe, stressed, sad, and alone? Do painful memories continue to haunt you, making it difficult to remain grounded in what’s currently happening? As a consequence of not easily trusting others, have your relationships suffered?

When you live in survival mode, you never feel like you’re in control. At any moment, a flashback—intrusive memories of a past traumatic event—may pull you out of the present and take you back to a moment when you didn’t feel safe. With flashbacks, something as innocuous as watching TV or reading a headline can trigger memories that feel like they’re being re-experienced on a visceral level with stunning clarity. A flashback can cause physical reactions, like a pounding heart and churning stomach, as well as a flood of anger, fear, or sadness that takes time to recover from. 

The Unwanted Consequences Of Trauma

Although what happened to you wasn’t your fault, perhaps you can’t escape feelings of guilt or shame that make you feel broken or “less than.” For example, you may have experienced religious trauma if you were raised to feel ashamed of your sexuality or for wanting to fulfill your own needs over others. One day, you may be exhausted, overwhelmed, and anxious, and the next, you feel numb, detached, and out of body. Without a sense of safety, you may become hypervigilant or overprotective in situations that don’t call for it.

Living with trauma negatively affects how you relate to those around you. You might avoid getting close to others and expressing how you feel, or, conversely, enter codependent relationships with no healthy boundaries. Without intimacy and trust, you may feel lonely and isolated.

If only you knew how to get out of survival mode and create a sense of safety for yourself. The good news is trauma therapy can equip you with the tools you need to control your surroundings, gradually building up your confidence to thrive in life. With evidence-based treatments like Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing (EMDR), counseling can help your mind and body heal from trauma.

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Trauma Is Sometimes Hard To Recognize

For many of us, the misconceptions over what constitutes trauma cause confusion and misunderstanding. Oftentimes, we only associate “Big T” traumatic events—such as experiencing active combat, natural disasters, physical or sexual assault, or serious accidents—with causing Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). However, what we may not realize is that “little t” trauma experienced in early childhood can also have a profound effect on our mental and physical well-being.

Although less recognized, “little t” traumas—like being raised in a household with emotionally withholding or neglectful caregivers—can be every bit as emotionally damaging as “Big T” trauma. The long-term impact of developing an anxious or avoidant attachment style in early childhood leads to forming unhealthy, codependent relationships as adults.

Generational Trauma Can Have A Lasting Impact On Families

Although not every bad thing that happens to us will cause lasting trauma, experiencing one or a series of distressing events can lead to mental health challenges, such as anxiety, depression, codependency, addiction, and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). Unfortunately, trauma often gets passed on from one generation to the next, both genetically and environmentally, leading to a legacy of dysfunction.

 

However, it’s never too late to break the cycle. Trauma therapy provides you with a safe space to explore your past experiences so you can process what happened and move beyond the fear and pain that keep you feeling trapped.

 

 

Trauma And PTSD Therapy Offers Hope For A New Path Forward

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As a therapist who specializes in trauma, I recognize the courageous step you’re making when considering counseling. If you have survived physical or sexual abuse or childhood trauma, the idea of talking about your trauma in therapy may seem intimidating. However, studies have found that between 77 to 100 percent of patients who attend trauma therapy sessions will see a reduction in their symptoms. [1] By combining evidence-based modalities with trauma-informed care, I ensure the treatment you receive will address unresolved trauma and PTSD symptoms effectively and compassionately.

For trauma and PTSD counseling to be successful, it’s important we form a connection based on trust, openness, and mutual respect. In therapy sessions, I aim to create a warm, welcoming, and non-judgmental environment that nurtures a sense of safety so you will feel comfortable opening up about difficult topics.

What To Expect In Sessions

Initially, our focus will be on your current experiences. This will help you develop self-awareness about your thoughts and feelings and learn useful tools to control your emotions. We may also explore how past experiences impact your thinking and how these thoughts affect you emotionally and physically. In particular, bringing awareness to your subconscious that often drives thoughts and behaviors can be beneficial. It’s also helpful to identify the primary emotion—usually fear or sadness—that underlies secondary emotions, like anxiety or anger.

In the long term, we will collaborate on setting goals that focus on your physical, emotional, social, and spiritual well-being. This holistic approach ensures that therapy supports you in mind, body, and soul.

The Modalities I Use In Trauma Counseling

To address trauma and PTSD, I use EMDR therapy, an evidence-based treatment that can effectively diminish the emotional intensity associated with traumatic memories. [2] EMDR gently guides your body and mind to process the trauma that has gotten “stuck.” This enables you to release fear-based physical reactions, such as muscle tension and increased heart rate. EMDR can also reduce emotional responses to traumatic memories, like feeling anxious or depressed, to restore a sense of safety.

In conjunction with EMDR, I may also incorporate:

  • Trauma-focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to challenge and reframe negative core beliefs, such as "I'm not good enough,” “I’m unlovable,” or “I’m not in control" and find alternative thoughts to reduce anxiety, anger, and fear;

  • Solution-focused therapy (SFT) for trauma and PTSD to help you break out of negative outlooks and envision a better future by noticing the good things that are currently happening;

  • Parts work based on Internal Family Systems (IFS) to recognize and heal the wounded aspects of self impacted by trauma;

  • Jungian therapy to acknowledge and accept the shadow self that is steeped in shame;

  • Trauma-informed breathwork, mindfulness meditation, and visualization exercises to manage stress and release tension so that you feel more present and peaceful.

By providing you with empathy, warmth, and a genuine connection, together we can unpack the memories that keep a part of you stuck in the past and instill hope for the future. Therapy can help you resolve the trauma that’s been weighing you down and impeding how you relate to yourself and the world around you. When you’re no longer functioning in survival mode, the possibilities are endless. 

 

But Maybe You’re Not Sure If Trauma Therapy Is Right For You…

  • Therapy may be more affordable than you think. Some health insurance plans, such as PPOs, may cover a portion of an out-of-network provider’s fees. In some cases, you may be reimbursed between 50-75 percent of your trauma and/or PTSD treatment with a private pay therapist. Additionally, I may be able to offer lower-cost sessions according to how much you can afford.

  • As a counselor who works with individuals who have experienced trauma or live with PTSD, I will never shame or impose my own opinions on you. Like all therapists, I have undergone years of training and personal development to process my own issues, which allows me to be fully present with you. I offer a warm, safe, confidential, and empathic space for you to explore the darkest corners of your psyche. Bringing the unconscious into consciousness is how you gain self-awareness so you can feel more in control of your life and make positive changes.

  • When you’re at your lowest, it can be hard to remember a time when you didn’t feel this way, let alone imagine a time when you might start to feel better. But for many people, trauma therapy can play a significant role in helping them to make sustainable, impactful changes. Ensuring you find the modality that best works for you, whether it be EMDR or trauma-informed CBT, and forging a positive relationship with your therapist are the keys to success.

Receiving Compassionate, Evidence-Based Support For Trauma Can Make A Difference

Let today be the day you take back control of how you think and feel. If you would like to find out more about trauma therapy with me, please call 720-935-1702 or visit my contact page to set up a free,15-minute consultation today. For your convenience, my services are all online.

[1] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5126802/
[2] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3951033/ 

 

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